Intimacy is one of the three main pillars of love. It is also one of the main S.P.I.C.Y. ingredients for a healthy relationship, be it romantic or platonic. We have created a culture that shames men for showing vulnerability and only applauds them when they show strength. We have to collectively do our part (men and women) to welcome self-exposure and celebrate the sharing of emotions, experiences and outlooks regardless of gender. I’m not going to lie. @Trevornoah is right. For centuries women